Wednesday, September 24, 2014

'Rare Bird' by Anna Whiston-Donaldson



How do you review a book told by a grieving mom who's lost her only son?  To a freak accident.  A drowning when he was only 12 years old.  How can you even be impartial?  You really can't.  Nobody can imagine the pain of the death of a child, especially when it comes out of the blue.

To be honest, when I got the email offering me the opportunity to review Anna Whiston-Donaldson's book Rare Bird, I hesitated.  I wasn't sure I could bear reading her story.  What saved me was listening to and watching a video online of her talking.  She's survived, but some days it probably feels otherwise.  I was so grateful to see her smile.  She can still conjure up a happy expression.  "Living and partly living" as it's quoted in TS Eliot's Murder in the Cathedral.  Seems apt.

A few years ago, on a rainy late afternoon Anna told her two children to go out and play in the rain.  As the book states, only one came home.  Her son drowned in a creek that had suddenly overflowed behind a neighbor's house.  The book is the story of a family's tragedy that fully demonstrated God's tender hand.

Could someone read this who was freshly grieving?  Not sure, but I found it a comfort nonetheless.

(i received this book free to review from waterbrook/multnomah)